HOW TO ALIGN WITH OUR TRUE NATURE

by The Frequency | Jan 23, 2026 | EMPOWERMENT

HOW TO ALIGN WITH OUR TRUE NATURE

With Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath’s teaching talents are the talk of the town, ‘tremendously tantalizing,’ ‘not tedious,’ and ‘Tuesday-Talks tops the ‘teachometer’ tachograph time and time again!’

Yes sir, Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath is a teacher both loved, and admired by many Coddle-Poppers both near and far, and even some in between!

One fine scholarly occasion springs to mind where Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath was asked by one of his students what was needed for folks to align themself with their TRUE nature (the essence of who we are as a Sol).

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath loves questions like these. He puffed out his chest and went into full-on, ‘ninja’ professorship mode (complete with that little knee bend that a policeman might do when they say ‘Evening all.’)… but I digress.

To align to our true nature, we must each first raise our awareness to what is natural for ourself. Then, what is natural for us will be revealed by our ATTENTION (what we think about, we bring about).

The student (a little perplexed), needed to understand what the professor meant by ATTENTION, and was a little confused at what the difference was between that and CONCENTRATION?

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath explained that concentration is an imposed discipline. Attention however, is our awakened curiosity. Concentration is initiated with the mind, whereas attention comes from the heart.

Concentration is what brilliant professors like me, get to teach awesome students like you at school. The downside however, is that our energy is forced in just one direction. Not only that, it is forced from OUTSIDE of ourself because we’re chasing an end result like approval, good grades, status, or sometimes even survival.

Sadly, most folks only know ‘concentration’ and ‘effort,’ which (to the heart) must sometimes feel like the mind is crushing our Sol. The mind keeps repeating, ‘You MUST do this,’ and sometimes even, ‘You MUST do that,’ just to change it up a bit (it’s a suppression, that saps our energy until we end up feeling exhausted and drained). So what do we do? We escape into distraction, consumption, drugs and/or entertainment.

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath pointed out that by contrast, attention is effortless (our path of least resistance). It’s the direction that we that will go when we FINALLY stop pretending, and throw away all of our ‘shoulds.’ Attention doesn’t come from fear, it comes from RESONANCE. Attention doesn’t push, it PULLS. It’s the subtle gravity of our own nature.

He pointed out that Sir Devonshire Hoggstwaddle-Amplespitt IV, Professor (retired) calls this the subtle vibration of intuition. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-shoes (philosophy teacher at Chuggphasterr Community College in the parish of Cabbagechester), calls it the law of our own being. But I like to look at it as our future, SELF-MANIFESTING in the present ‘now moment’ (trying to guide us toward our destiny).

All three of us have different ways of looking at it, but essentially, it’s the same horse but with different jockeys, and we’re all pointing to our ‘inner-pull’ that knows the way BEFORE we actually do.

The student (though intrigued), was concerned where, being ‘financially secure’ fits into all of this (because we’ve ALL got to live, right?).

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath grinned, and laid it out like this: The weird part is that, when we stop trying to bend our life around money, and instead begin to listen (really listen) to where our heart wants to go, a kind of grace starts to kick in.

We start to notice how it is that the right people start turning up at just the right time. We get surprise opportunities (as if placed in front of us by an unseen hand). Life rearranges itself around us because we’re finally in harmony (resonance) with the Divine-unfolding of our life. It’s as if the whole universe says: ‘Hello sleepy-head, it’s good to see you’re finally listening. Now that you’re paying attention, hold my beer and hang on tight, because here’s what we’re going to do next.’

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath added that, once we’ve settled into who we TRULY are, God (not as a being in the sky, but as the living intelligence within all things) takes care of the WHEN and the HOW.

It takes great courage NOT to dwell on the money. It requires us to be able to acknowledge the fear but still move forward (despite it). The professor highlighted that if our attention keeps returning to a particular skill, topic, creativeness, a certain kind of work, or even a philosophical question, it means ‘life’ is trying to unfold something THROUGH us.

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath emphasizes that we NEED to listen to that pull. We need to do more of whatever that pull is, and to do less of everything else. We permit ourself to immerse into it completely.

But here’s where the wheel usually comes off. Most folk tend to JUDGE the things that they’re interested in. Before giving ‘whatever it is’ a chance, they prematurely label what pulls them as: ‘not useful,’ ‘not productive,’ or ‘not profitable,’ and in doing so they’ve already killed their ‘natural unfolding’ in the name of practicality, and throw the baby out with the bathwater. Sadly, most of us don’t die when we’re buried, we die the moment we abandon what makes us ALIVE.

Our nature doesn’t yell. It doesn’t force. It doesn’t require motivation or discipline. It doesn’t threaten… It just waits. It waits for us to stop being AFRAID of ourself. It waits for us to STOP needing validation. It wants for us to TRUST the intelligence of what we’re naturally drawn to.

Switched-on Homosapiens and Coddle-Poppers do not create their greatest work from safety. They create it from truth. They don’t abandon their nature just to satisfy the world (because it won’t). We need to FORGET what our parents want, what peers think is ‘normal,’ what social media influencers worship, what brings status or approval, and even what we do to avoid discomfort. NONE of these things are our nature; they are our CONDITIONING. The best that any of those things can offer, is a life that ‘looks’ right, but it will ultimately FEEL wrong.

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte from Barnstock and Boothe Boys School in the Borough of Bainbridge-Upon-Bath insists that we should ALL allow ourself to be naturally drawn by the ‘Divine-Pull’ of what grabs us, and follow that thread with curiosity. Why? Because it will lead us back home (to ourself).

Here’s one final tip, or at least something more to think about. As soon as we die, our identity becomes just a ‘body.’ People say things like ‘Bring the body,’ ‘put the body in the grave’ etc. People don’t even call us by our name (the same people we tried to impress our whole life).

Let’s all live a life to please Creator, not the creation

So let’s take chances, spend money on the things we love, laugh until our tummy hurts, dance (even if we’re not good at it), pose for silly photos… be child-like. Because the moral of this particular story is that death is not the biggest loss in life. The real loss is when life dies inside of us while we’re still alive… so please be sure to celebrate this gift that we call LIFE.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte is of the Hogswallow Blackington-Brainpharttes with royal connections to the Coddle-Popper Queen’s aunt’s second cousin twice removed. Yes sir, THE Hogswallow Blackington-Brainpharttes no less!

You can discover more about Professor Bartholomew Blackington-Brainphartte in our upcoming book of runes titled: ‘The Quiet Whispers of the Talking Trees,’ which we’re hoping will be available just in time for the Christmas stocking.

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CLEARING LIMITATIONS

by The Frequency | Dec 15, 2025 | EMPOWERMENT

Clearing Limitations

Clarence Kokzuh-Poffen, is affectionately known as ‘The Cleaner.’ This particular Coddle-Popper has a very unique talent, where he can take any limited thought, and turn it on its head to a positive. He cleans our stinking thinking, and turns our ’can’ts’ into beautiful shiny ‘cans’.

Clarence Kokzuh-Poffen has offered to share his technique (for us to help ourselves), to release our self-imposed mental limitations (especially when it comes to taking action). Please grab a pen and piece of paper.

Make a list of our limitations. Phrase up to five statements (or more), all beginning with the two words ‘I can’t.’ (I can’t do this, I can’t do that, I can’t this, and I can’t that).

We start by owning our ‘I can’t’ thoughts. In focusing on our ‘I can’t’ thoughts (our intention is to deliberately create what it is that we hold in our mind, so as to gain a bit of control over it).

Start with the first statement on our list. Example: (Statement of Rufus Gruffybritches, a student in the art of clearing limitations. He’s always wanted to be a videographer, but doesn’t do it because he doesn’t believe he can). His statement is: ‘I can’t be a videographer.’

Whatever our statement is, we close our eyes and focus on it. We fully own that particular ‘I can’t…’ (allow time to get into it).

Example (Rufus Gruffybritches): I can’t be a videographer.

We visualize it (as we think the thought) deliberately, and on purpose (It tends not to come up automatic or subconsciously). The key is to bring our ‘I can’t…’ into our consciousness.

Own it deeply. By getting deeper into it, we take more responsibility for it. This is achieved by rephrasing the limitation with, ‘I don’t want.’

So, instead of, ‘I can’t,’ we say, ‘I don’t want…’ as if it were our responsibility (like we’re the one creating it), it’s a deeper level of owning. We pretend that it’s not that we ‘can’t’ do it, it’s that we don’t ‘want’ to do it. (Rufus Gruffybritches’ example: I don’t want to be a videographer).

We do this and give ourself time to get into it (it may take a while to get into the feeling of NOT wanting it). Even if this seems silly, it will be true (on some level), that some aspect of us doesn’t want it, otherwise (if we really wanted it), we’d already be doing it. By focusing on the idea of, ‘I don’t want… (whatever our item is), this gives us a sense of empowerment when compared with ‘I can’t,’ where we’re the victim). With, ‘I don’t want,’ we are ‘of Source’. We’re responsible for everything in our life.

Underlying this, ‘I don’t want’ we should feel an emotional pain or frustration (which we may have already felt that by now), but just in case we haven’t, this next step will get us deeper.

3. Get even deeper, right into the frustration/pain/emotion underlying this issue. The way to do that is to become more involved with that issue, and let the emotion come up and out with the ‘because’. ‘I don’t want… because…’

We ask ourself, why don’t we want that? What’s the reason? There’s usually a reason, or payoff as to why our subconscious does not want this. As we do this, answer the question with, ‘because,’ and see what emotions come up. Allow the emotions to come up and pass through (don’t push away, don’t resist).

Rufus Gruffybritches’ example: I don’t want to be a videographer because… (insert thought)… I’m not good enough.

There might be many reasons come up (reasons WE don’t want, reasons SOMEONE ELSE might not want that, reasons why we don’t want to play along, and pretend. We find out what’s below that, and FEEL whatever kind of frustration/emotion, perhaps some shame/guilt/fear, resignation/anger or some kind of stress.

The way to release these emotions is by allowing them to come up and out by FEELING the emotion (just sitting and breathing with the emotion), rather than suppressing them with thought. If we can release one emotion, we release a thousand thoughts. With that, there might be a pain in our chest/stomach/forehead/solar plexus (where most of the emotions are stored, beneath all the thought rubbish). Allow the emotion to come up.

‘I don’t want… because…’ is to allow the emotions to come up and pass through. We let them run out by FEELING what is there, instead of pushing back down or ignoring it. FEEL what’s there. We are a part of Source. We’re bigger than those emotions. We’re their observer. We permeate those emotions, and expand far, and wide outside of those emotions. We’re ‘of Source,’ there’s nothing to be afraid of. Some of us might get tears (that’s okay, that’s release), then once we’ve let the emotions run out. We go to the next step.

Rufus Gruffybritches’ example: I don’t want to be a videographer because… it’s so much stress, because… my movies are actually boring, because… I just want recognition that I’ve never received, because…I’m not good enough, and because… I’m a pretender (examples of the emotions that would come up).

Rephrase our statement to the empowered statement. (The final step). Once the emotions are somewhat cleared, we rephrase our statement to the empowered statement, which is ‘I can’ (I can be a videographer, I can make good films).

We close our eyes and hold the thought ‘I can…’ (whatever our topic is), this is the empowered opposite of the ‘I can’t,’ (which is now much easier to focus on because we’ve released the old).

In true Coddle-Popper tradition, it’s a very simple technique. We just have to take the time and awareness to do it slowly, step by step. We focus on ‘I can…’ (Rufus Gruffybritches’ example: I can be a GOOD videographer), and if we want to add some spice to it, we add ‘because.’ The word because supports it emotionally, so ‘I can… because…’ the more reasons we come up with why we can do it, the better!

We focus on this thought longer than the other ones because these are the thoughts we’d like to turn into habit, and we’d like to emotionalize ‘I can if I really, really, want to.’

‘I can… because…’ we really give ourself plenty of time to get into it, to feel it, see it, name reasons for it. Why we think we CAN do that?

At least now we get to understand how Clarence Kokzuh-Poffen became ‘The Cleaner.’ For those that are wondering, Rufus Gruffybritches overcame his ‘stinking thinking’ and is now in charge of the social media of ‘The Land of the Little People’ Band. Those of us that have signed up for the Newsletter are quite likely to come across some of his work in the very near future.

Clarence Kokzuh-Poffen Summary:

We feel better (afterwards) than before. We started out with a feeling of limitation and we ended up with either relief, or a sense of empowerment (real strength). In this same manner, we rinse and repeat our entire list of ‘I can’t’ items.

One at a time, we take our ‘I can’t’ item, and focus on the ‘I can’t.’ We then go one step deeper, and rephrase it to ‘I don’t want,’ and focus on that. The third step is ‘I don’t want… because,’ and as we focus there, we bring up all the feelings. We let them run out and/or through until we’re okay. The fourth step is to rephrase it to ‘I can.’ We focus on the ‘I can’ until we feel a sense of empowerment or relief. You’re welcome.