BEFORE-THE-WORDS CHECK

BEFORE-THE-WORDS CHECK

To some, Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III would come across as a bit of a ‘red-neck,’ to others, he’s resourceful, but to Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III, he just doesn’t understand the concept of quitting.

‘There’s ten ways of doing everything’ is his motto, so he’s very often found at the source of solutions for many-a-Coddle-Popper with his varied assortment of tips and tricks (thus his nickname of ‘Tricksie’). If there’s an alternate way of doing anything, Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is the Coddle-Popper who will work out what it is. Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III has compiled a weekly compendium of instances that (when needed), better ways were discovered (whether mental or physical), in the form of handy tips. 

‘Why work hard, when you can work smart?’ is another of his famous sayings, and is the epitome of what his weekly tips are all about.

WHAT IT IS 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III reveals that the ‘Before-the-Words’ Check invites us to clarify whether the communication problem is actually a problem to do with our words, or, a problem with how safe we feel. 

WHY IT WORKS 

Our ability to find the right words lessens when our nervous system feels threatened. Somehow, our thoughts become harder to organize, like as if our access to language narrows. We go blank, get defensive, shut down, or say things that we don’t really mean. 

Coddle-Poppers refer to this phenomenon as ‘Brain-phartte.’ Brain-phartte occurs as a precursor to ‘nose-whistles.’ Oh Lordy, nose-whistles are a nasal occurrence brought on by overthinking, brain-ache, and/or an over-stimulated nervous system. (There are two different octave whistles, depending whether an inward or outward breath. Prolonged nose whistles eventually bring on non-fatal brain explosions that do not have any long-term harm for the Coddle-Popper), but I digress, and that’s another story, for another day. 

Most of us have spent years trying to be better at communicating, when all along, the problem was that we lose access to our words when we’re under pressure! It wasn’t ‘vocabulary,’ the problem was our ‘CAPACITY.’ 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III suggests that by us understanding that difference, we’ll save ourself from a lot of self-blame and point ourself in the right direction toward what we really need.

HOW TO USE 

  • Step 1: Recognize the breakdown. We’re in a conversation, and we can’t find the words. (Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III says that we might go blank, get defensive, or shut down).
  • Step 2: Evaluation question. Before trying to fix anything, let’s ask ourself: ‘Is it that I don’t know what to say, or, is it that I don’t feel safe enough to say it?’
  • Step 3: Distinguish the problem. If we genuinely don’t know what to say, the solution might be clarification, preparation, or a different approach. Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is keen to point out that if we don’t feel safe, then there’s no amount of perfect wording that’s going to solve it.
  • Step 4: Address what’s REALLY needed. A ‘words’ problem might call for more preparation, or time to gather of our thoughts. A ‘safety’ problem might involve a pause, a different time and/or place, or (importantly), proof that the person can handle what we’re about to say without judgment.
  • Step 5: Build the conditions (not just the skills). Instead of asking ‘Why can’t I communicate?’ Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III suggests that we’re better served when we ask ourselves, ‘What conditions help me communicate well?’ 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III wants us to understand that this particular shift deflects our focus away from personal failure, and moves it toward understanding what our nervous system NEEDS in order to stay present.

TOP TIP 

‘Safety’ doesn’t always mean physical safety. No sir, it can also mean: 

  • Are they going to hear me or dismiss me? 
  • Can I speak without fear of being made wrong or to look a fool? 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is constantly amused that our nervous system always knows that answer before we do!

MORE FROM TERRENCE ‘TRICKSIE’ PIMPLETHWAITE III

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III grew up in somewhat of a broken home. His father was overly partial to Coddle-berry wine and spent most of his time and money down at the local boozer. His poor ol’ Mom got by on a pittance and yet, all of her children wanted for nothing. They didn’t have much, but what they did have, they appreciated and learned to become VERY resourceful.

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III missed a lot of school so that he could provide the shortfall in money needed in order to stay ahead of the bills, but that did not stop him from studying in the evenings by candlelight so as to still be able to make his grades.

Coddle-Poppers are wise enough to  know that we are all unique parts of a puzzle, and if we encourage each other to shine, listen, learn and adventure into new ways of doing things, well, we may just find ‘interesting’ new ways of doing things. These ‘new nuggets’ of knowledge then lead us down other paths that we have never travelled before too (like the icing on the proverbial cake)! When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change!

The great thing about the Coddle-Popper way, is that it shifts us out of defending our limitations, and into exploring our possibilities (where the REAL change happens)!

We are each a ‘Spirit’ (part of Source/Creator/God, insert your own Divinity here) having a ‘Homo-Sapien’ experience. Our life on Earth is an encyclopedia of experiences laid out FOR us (by prior agreement), in order for us to LEARN and GROW. Through ‘Natural Law’, no Coddle-Popper, Spirit Guide, Faery, nor Angel are allowed to intervene on our behalf unless specifically asked or invited by us, for fear of karmic intervention.

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

Learn more here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good.

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

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WHEN STRESS MADE US SHORT & IRRITABLE, AND WE NEED TO MAKE AMENDS

WHEN STRESS MADE US SHORT & IRRITABLE, AND WE NEED TO MAKE AMENDS

Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII is a no-nonsense, say it as it is, matter-of-fact, oracle of wisdom kind of Coddle-Popper. His wisdom has been hard earned over nine hundred and seventy-five years of service as a Coddle-Popper Elder (When we take into account that one cannot be a member of the Counsel of Coddle-Popper Elders before their six hundred and ninety-ninth birthday, it can be safely said that he’s ‘been around the clock’ more than a few times!)

WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE

We’ve been under a lot of stress, and we’re starting to turn into a snap-dragon. We’re being short and irritable with the people around us.

We lack patience with our kids, we snap at our partner, and we’re a total pain in the backside for the poor souls that have to work with us! It’s not that we were deliberately trying to upset anyone, but our stress had ground us down and lowered our threshold for tolerance. As a result, we react overly harshly to things that we normally wouldn’t bat an eyelid to. 

Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII insists that as soon as things start getting a little more settled (and we’ve realized that we need to acknowledge what just happened), we DEFINITELY need to mend a few fences and make things right again.

SUGGESTION

Try saying this: ‘I’ve been really stressed lately, and I know I’ve been short and irritable with you. That’s not okay, and I’m sorry. You’ve done nothing to deserve being on the receiving end of my stress.’

WHY IT WORKS

Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII points out that it’s because we’re naming the behaviour that THEY experienced. We’re OWNING it (WITHOUT making excuses), and acknowledging that they DIDN’T deserve it.

TOP TIP

If they bring up more stuff (complete with specific examples), or say they’re really hurt by it, Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII implores us to LISTEN WITHOUT GETTING DEFENSIVE and even suggests we try: ‘You’re right, I did that, and I understand why it hurt. I’m working on handling my stress better so that I don’t take it out on you.’ 

Whatever we do, we DON’T follow the apology with explanations about how stressed we were. Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII wants us to understand that our ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF THE IMPACT matters MORE than the explaining of our intent (that’s the secret sauce of why this works).

FINAL THOUGHT

We are each a ‘Spirit’ (part of Source/Creator/God, insert your own Divinity here) having a ‘Homo-Sapien’ experience. Our life on Earth is an encyclopedia of experiences laid out FOR us (by prior agreement), in order for us to LEARN and GROW.

MORE ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII is a well-weathered looking Coddle-Popper (well, after nine hundred and seventy-five years as a Coddle-Popper Elder, one certainly would acquire a few wrinkles and creases!).  Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII likes to boast that he stands about 3 apples tall, but truth be told, he may be three apples tall, but the top one does have more-than-a-few bites taken out of it!

Being one of many in a very large family, Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII soon learned that the best way to get through life was with a ‘no-nonsense’ approach. He learned to always ask three valuable questions. Why has this happened? What caused it? and, What steps can I take to get to the solution? No ‘ifs,’ ‘ands’ or ‘buts.’ 

Just a straight talking, say it as it is, no-nonsense Coddle-Popper, which makes Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII the most eligible Coddle-Popper to host ‘Therapist Corner’ (offering easily achievable solutions to life’s niggles and annoyances).

Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII has overcome many years of constant nose whistles and temporary brain explosions to now be sufficiently competent in being the ‘go-to’ guy for ALL things (big and small).

(Nose-whistles: A nasal occurrence brought on by overthinking and/or brain-ache. There are two different octave whistles, depending whether an inward or outward breath. Prolonged nose whistles eventually bring on non-fatal brain explosions that do not have any long-term harm for the Coddle-Popper). 

Coddle-Poppers know to go to Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII for any issue they have, and know full well that they’re going to get a no-nonsense answer to their issue (well how do you think Noddy earned the ‘No-Nonsense’ name!)

To be ordained into the elite Counsel of Coddle-Popper Elders, only the wisest of the wise, judicious, and prudent Coddle-Poppers need apply. Sage-like qualities, complemented with a generous sprinkling of the very rare quality of ‘common sense’, would be considered an asset, but MUST have travelled around the sun at least six hundred and ninety-nine times before a Coddle-Popper can even be considered eligible for such a prestigious position as an elder in the Counsel. Noddy ‘No-Nonsense’ Nigglesworth VIII is one such Coddle-Popper.

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

Learn more here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good.

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

Join Our Newsletter

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HOW THOUGHTS SHAPE OUR LIFE

HOW THOUGHTS SHAPE OUR LIFE

Thoughts steer our attention

It may be hard to believe, but our brain is not a perfect receiver and does not remember every single detail (I know many men may think their wives have brains that remember every single occasion, especially when they have messed up… but no). Whilst our brain is capable of noticing and processing a vast array of information, it does have shortcuts and biases that can lead to selective attention and cognitive illusions (now the women are thinking about the men in their lives). LOL 

To help us survive and navigate the chaos of life, our brain puts in ‘search filters’ to allow it to find what it’s searching for from our thoughts. So, for the reasons listed below, it’s best that we start to pay more attention to our thoughts (because of our pesky search filter). 

If our mindset/thoughts keeps us thinking that we’re struggling to keep up in life, then all that we’ll notice is how well our friends are doing, and what we lack. Even the good stuff, like our little victories end up getting ignored, because we’re no longer searching for them. Let’s think of our mindset as a laser searching out only that which is the same or similar to our particular thought (like starting a diet, but thinking we probably wont be able to do it anyway as we usually don’t. We find no shortages of excuses for a sweet treat like a donut… at least a donut makes us feel happy for a while). 

So our search engine/mindset/thoughts searches for ways we have failed before, and lights up our road to failure (complete with good reasons why we should fail). We then compound that by eating something wrong and spend the next few days guilting ourself that we failed again! (But was that not that the goal of our mindset in the first place?) But, if our mindset keeps us thinking how we’re continually getting better, and how we’re making better choices for our future selves, we then pick up on how much progress we’re making, find opportunities, and come across supportive people. 

Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes describes two people who begin a new job. The first person thinks they’re not good enough (that they should not really have got the job and it will just be a matter of time before they are ‘found out’ and get fired). They then look for every reason to quantify this theory, so they focus on every small mistake and nit pick at everything they do, and how badly they do it, knowing that anyone else could do it better. As a result, people then notice the mistakes they make, and indeed start to nit pick at their work as that is what they are searching for. Does any of us recognize this in ourself? 

The other person (with a learning mindset), is proud of getting an opportunity to use their skills and shine, they take note of their improvements, how their confidence is growing and ask more questions to discover other ways of incorporating more skills into their ever growing tool box. They strive forward, knowing anything is possible and that they can accomplish what they set out to do. Opportunity always seems to find them, as that is what they have set their ‘filter’ to.

The point that Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes is making, is that it’s our own thoughts that decide what it is that our mind ‘highlights.’

Thoughts drive our emotions

Most emotions don’t come directly from events. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes insists that they come from the MEANING we give to the event. He sets a scenario of an event whereby someone didn’t reply to our message. Our first thought could be that, ‘they don’t respect me, every body ignores me, I don’t know why I bother’ which would trigger the emotion of anger or sadness.

Alternatively, our thought might be that, ‘I said something wrong, I always say the wrong thing, that is why I don’t have many friends’ which could trigger the emotion of anxiety or stress. Of course, we could just have a thought that, ‘oh well, they’re probably just busy.’ There’s no emotion, just calmness.

The point that Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes is driving home, is that each scenario is the very same situation, but with very different thoughts and feelings. Mindset.

Thoughts influence our actions

Our feelings are what pushes our behaviour. But it’s our thoughts that are in the drivers seat of our feelings. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes warns that if we have the thought that we can’t do something, our emotion may react with fear or stress, which in turn initiates an action of procrastination, avoidance or quitting. The powerful ‘What IF’! (What if I try and fail, I probably wont be able to do it anyway so I should not even bother).

On the other hand, should we compromise with the thought of, ‘I’ll do one small step,’ our emotion may be one of pressure, but it’s still manageable. It initiates the action of starting, which expands to a practice and eventually blossoms into momentum. We just get a taste of what it feels like to DO, the hardest part always seems to be the first step, but looking back with regret and ‘if only’ (for NOT trying), is a heavier burden than the difficulty in taking the first step.

The philosophy teacher went one step further with a scenario of two different thought mindsets: Should we think that gym is too hard (getting up earlier and probably looking ridiculous using the machines wrong), then it’s quite likely that we’d just skip it. But if we had the thought to do ‘just 10 minutes, of something we enjoy, walking outside, trampolining, or skipping like a 10 year old with no-one else looking, then we’d end up doing more than the 10 minutes once we got started!

Thoughts become habits (our mental ‘default setting’)

What we keep telling ourself, eventually becomes our brain’s automatic pattern. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes explains that if we keep repeating about how we’re always unlucky,’ then we inevitably start expecting failure and we stop trying to the best of our abilities (we end up believing it). Think of our thoughts as muscles. What we keep thinking about, is what we strengthen. Instead of building muscles we’re building neural pathways. Our thought will follow the path it usually takes, be it positive or negative.

Should we have a positive mindset and think that, ‘we can always figure stuff out,’ we treat every challenge as an adventure and keep trying. We build our confidence and an awesome ‘can-do’ attitude. Over time, these repeated thoughts become what seems like our ‘personality,’ but Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes is quick to point out that really, they’re just trained patterns. The moral of this story being that our mind learns what we practice, so we should only build the pathways that we would prefer to travel.

Thoughts change results over time (compounding effect)

Thoughts affect even the little things in life. These small choices (when repeated enough times) eventually become big life outcomes. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes explains COMPOUNDING for us:

Should we have the thought of ‘I really want to do something different, but I am too old to change.’ If we were to maintain that thought and do that 100 times, the months will tick away, and there’d be no change, and we’d still be in the same place and yes even older! But we’ll still have the usual thousand and one excuses of why we made the right choice to do nothing. If however our thought was to do just one step today, and try something different to see if we like it, discover a new skill or passion (just by taking bitesize classes, watching a video and giving it a go), then by doing what we love 100 times, maybe we’d discover a new passion/skill, make real progress, with real results. 

Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes points out that real POWER is not one big thought, but repeated thoughts shaping repeated actions. The loop that makes our thoughts so powerful is simple:

Thought creates Emotion creates Behaviour creates Outcome creates New Thought

Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes interprets it like this, a thought creates an emotion, that emotion influences what we do, our actions create an outcome, and the outcome then feeds back into the next thought we have about ourself and/or life. 

The philosophy teacher points out that this is why our thoughts feel so powerful… it’s because they don’t just stay in our head; they shape our feelings, our choices and our results. Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes concludes that if we can change the thought (or change how we relate to it), we can change the emotion, the behaviour, and eventually the outcome, which means that we can shift the entire loop to a more healthier direction.

MORE ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-Shoes is a Philosophy teacher at Chuggphasterr Community College in the parish of Cabbagechester. You can discover more about hime here: https://thefrequency.ca/sheamus-sherman-schnouzer-shoes-2/ 

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

Learn more here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good.

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

Join Our Newsletter

This is just a placeholder while we build this website. We really do appreciate both your patience and enthusiasm and thank you for your support.

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The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Rd, Stanley, NB

Hours

By appointment ONLY

Copyright © 2026

DAY OF RECKONING

DAY OF RECKONING

DAY OF RECKONING 

with Dumb-Founded Derek (The Wise One)

What we’re witnessing, is ‘change with purpose’ and it refuses to hold-back any longer. It was gradual at first, but now feels like all hell’s broken loose to make forward movement occur. This ‘now’ moment is like the ‘last call for boarding’ when passengers grab their gear to get on their flight before it departs. It feels a bit chaotic, rushed and a bit of a free-for-all (like trying to rush through customs before flight boarding closes). It’s frantic, and it’s tense.

What we’re experiencing is really a ‘frequency’ platform rather than an airport boarding platform, and it’s happening right now and it’s freely available for every Coddle-Popper, person, Faery, place, animal, vegetable, and/or thing! The franticness is linear time (where we feel that the boarding gate might be closing). But nothing is closing really, though choices ARE being made that put us closest to the frequencies that are in alignment with our goals/projects/passions.

It’s not a split as such, it’s more of a choosing (based on our preferences, life path and ease). ‘Good’ choices are no more evolved than ‘bad’ choices. They are just choices of frequency. Some frequency choices are made to fulfill a teacher role. Some are soul contracts, but ALL frequency choices will result in moving forward (there will be NO backward movement). Anything we do, contributes to our growth, development, and evolution.

What we witness now will be constant (maybe even confusing), so best we hang on to our attitude of ONENESS. It will take on a hierarchy in relationships where the whole will be more than the sum of the two parts, where ALL parties contribute in ALL circumstances. Both ‘sides’ bear responsibility for what has occurred (where one ‘side’ allows another to ‘hurt’ them for the benefit of both). It’s described like this, because of our goal/project/passion. Our goal/project/passion is likely to be of full awareness, enlightenment, and ascension. That goal/project/passion is attained by adopting a broader viewpoint. 

Let’s go back to the frequency airport (that the world finds itself frantically boarding). The flight tickets are free and offered to everyone and everything. The subconscious choosing of the ticket occurs even without our awareness. Most of us, have had the ticket in our hand for quite a while now. We’re able to watch (with relative calm) from the comfort of our seat, those who are still choosing theirs.

Revelations will announce various people/systems/positions falling apart and their being escorted off the airport platform altogether. It’s not likely that we’ll change our mind or seat (now that we’ve found/earned it). We’ll stay where we are, watch, and breathe a sigh of relief. Everything is in perfect order.  

At the end of the journey, the lights will come on, and everyone will be seen as they truly are. We’ll find ourself in a comfy place with people who feel like family (It’ll be this way for everyone). There’s a perfectly chosen frequency that fits for every individual.

So, if we find ourself reassessing things in these coming days and weeks, pay attention. We’re being called to our frequency through the choices that appeal most to our heart. This reckoning is not a punishment. It is a recognition and acceptance of who we are. It is OUR truth. This is where our world is headed and it promises to be an interesting/exciting trip.

MORE ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Dumb-Founded Derek’s job is to contemplate wise things to tell the other Coddle Poppers. He has to be careful what he teaches them, because if he tells them things that are too confusing, their heads could explode momentarily, while their brains try to absorb all the new information that he gives them.

Nose-whistles: A nasal occurrence brought on by overthinking and/or brain-ache. There are two different octave whistles, depending whether an inward or outward breath. Prolonged nose whistles eventually bring on non-fatal brain explosions that do not have any long-term harm for the Coddle-Popper. 

Oh, it’s a very hard job being the wise one, and sometimes he wonders what it would be like, to NOT have to worry so much about everything. But then, he worries that if he doesn’t worry about those things, who would worry about them then? And what would happen to the them without a wise one worrying about them? Oh, what a worry it is!

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

Learn more here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good.

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

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THE POWER OF OUR ATTENTION

THE POWER OF OUR ATTENTION

THE POWER OF OUR ATTENTION

To some, Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III would come across as a bit of a ‘red-neck,’ to others, he’s resourceful, but to Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III, he just doesn’t understand the concept of quitting. No Sir, he never learned that word when he was growing up.

‘There’s ten ways of doing everything, and then two other options as well’ is his motto, so he’s very often found at the source of solutions for many-a-Coddle-Popper with his varied assortment of tips, tricks, tried and true theories, and tested triumphs. These are the things that caused his nickname of ‘Tricksie’. If there’s an alternate way of doing something or anything, Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is the Coddle-Popper who will search, scour and source what it is. He certainly knows how to turn a sow’s ear into a silk purse. Not that you usually find a sow’s ears in the woods, no sir, they are usually firmly attached to the sow they happen to belong to, as they always should be.

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III has compiled a weekly compendium of instances when better ways were discovered, whether it was mental, physical or even magical, and he has kindly bestowed this knowledge in the form of handy tips. ‘Why work hard, when you can work smart?’ is another of his famous sayings, and is the epitome of what his weekly tips are all about. So what are you waiting for, the answer will always be found thanks to Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III.

According to Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III, our attention has an amazingly intense POWER that can not only control and focus our attention (whether for mastery or our hologram), but can also release us from limitations too. The Coddle Poppers are very aware that whatever we create, we can also uncreate. 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III points out that we are the author’s of our own story, so if we do not like how the story is going, why oh why would we even consider continuing along that path? We would be like the fly, who is constantly hitting it’s head on the light bulb. Why is that? At what point does it realize that what it is doing is causing it harm. If the fly chose a different ‘flight’ path, what a different World it would see and all without a headache. Imagine that! The same analogy works for Coddle-Poppers and even homo sapiens. Yes sir, it certainly does. If we don’t like the path we’re on, why would we continue on that path? When we change the way we look at things (even our life), the things we look at change.

Our ATTENTION is the mental ability/power to focus a beam of electrical energy on a given point. Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III says that this beam/light ray, is formed by our own life energy (from the electro-magnetic field through our chakras), which flows along the line of FORCE (that’s created by us by placing our ATTENTION upon the condition which we are ‘witnessing’). It has been well documented that nothing exists until it is observed, and we influence what we do observe and therefore the results that we see.

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III explains that it is a magnetic LAW, which means that the substance, energy, and quality upon which our attention is fixed, begins to flow back into our own worldly affairs instantly, because like always attracts like. 

Depending upon the INTENSITY that our attention is fixed upon a ‘condition,’ Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III points out that the equivalent intensity is MATCHED for the return of that quality into our own world (like for like). 

When we focus on a problem, all we ever seem to see is the problem (what we give our attention to and the energy we give, is what we receive). The more energy and focus we put on a problem, the bigger it appears to be until it is the only thing we think about. It becomes our constant companion, whether we want it or not. Lordy, Lordy, homo sapiens sure are strange creatures indeed.

The point that Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is trying to make is that, in order to heal a condition (whether it be a person, place or even a thing), our attention must be WITHDRAWN from the problem, otherwise if we continue to focus on it, we will only see problems and be given more problems to look at, as we seem to enjoy focusing on them so much! 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III says that this is the scientific action of the law (that we cannot solve a problem from the same place that we created it). If we place focus upon the HEALING or SOLUTION, what do you think we will receive instead? 

I can hear those brain cells whirling into gear. What we can feel, we can heal.  This means that we will then attract healing instead of the condition. How simple is that? We are rewriting our story!

Being ‘of’ Source/Creator, when we cast the beam of our attention into the healing (seeing, believing and feeling it as if it has already happened), we set up a physical current of energy for the flow of light substance/power/healing/etc to begin its journey through the beam of our attention back into our world. 

Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III adds that as we keep this beam focused on the thought as if we ‘ALREADY’ have it, our world, body AND feelings become saturated with the matching corresponding light which dissolves the condition and kindly supplies us with a solution of how we resolve the issue… revealed before our very minds!

Top tip: Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III says that a crystal grid works especially well, because it also allows us to ‘let go’ of the issue too. Attention-Intention-No tension. Read all that again. Attention-Intention-No tension. And now, once more for good measure and you know how Coddle Poppers like a good measure, especially when it comes to Coddle Berry wine or even fungal crunch bark clippings topped with toad boogers. Yum!!

MORE FROM TERRENCE ‘TRICKSIE’ PIMPLETHWAITE III

Coddle-Poppers are wise enough to know that we are all unique pieces of a gigantic puzzle, and if we encourage each other to shine, listen, learn and adventure into new ways of doing things, well, we may just find ‘interesting’ new ways of doing things. These ‘new nuggets’ of knowledge (which just happen to come courtesy of Norbut Ovnolidge), then lead us down other paths that we have never travelled before too. Adventuring into the new pages of our life story. Pen at the ready. When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change! Our life is an unfinished masterpiece!

The great thing about the Coddle-Popper way, is that it shifts us out of defending our limitations, and into exploring our possibilities. This is where the REAL change happens!

We are each a ‘Spirit’ (part of Source/Creator/God, insert your own Divinity here) having a ‘homo sapiens’ experience. Our life on Earth is an encyclopedia of experiences laid out FOR us (by prior agreement), in order for us to LEARN and GROW. Through ‘Natural Law’, no Coddle-Popper, Spirit Guide, Faery, nor Angel are allowed to intervene on our behalf unless specifically asked or invited by us, for fear of karmic intervention.

No hurdle stops Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III and as a way to work around this, Terrence ‘Tricksie’ Pimplethwaite III is able to ‘suggest’ ideas through the power of meditation, making it appear as if it were our own thinking, and therefore to allow the suggestions to digest and percolate into the depths of our mind. It is intended as a tool to enhance our discernment skills. You’re welcome.

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

Learn more here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good.

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

Join Our Newsletter

This is just a placeholder while we build this website. We really do appreciate both your patience and enthusiasm and thank you for your support.

The Frequency

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Rd, Stanley, NB

Hours

By appointment ONLY

Copyright © 2026