WHY BOUNDARIES IMPROVE MENTAL HEALTH

WHY BOUNDARIES IMPROVE MENTAL HEALTH

Here’s Tommy ‘Top-Tips’ Tinklehausser’s with his weekly tip…

WHY BOUNDARIES IMPROVE MENTAL HEALTH

Boundaries are simply the limits, rules, or lines in the sand that we set for our own personal comfort/well-being. They’re are a set of guidelines that are both physical, and mental, that we create to protect ourself when we are around other people and in relationships.

Tommy ‘Top-Tips’ Tinklehausser is the Coddle-Popper who seems to have ‘been there-done that’ more times than any other Coddle-Popper. At a ripe old age of 973, if there was a hard way of doing things, he’s tried it (Not too dis-similar to some of us humans), with the wrinkles on his brow to prove it. Tommy ‘Top-Tips’ Tinklehausser has compiled a compendium of cases where an easier way was found which he lovingly shares with us humans with his weekly tips in order to ease the emotional roller-coaster that we’re on.

Having healthy boundaries is an important skill. It helps us thrive and communicate our needs. It’s really important for us to set limits. This is so that others don’t take advantage or manipulate us. A person with strong personal boundaries feels comfortable saying ‘no,’ especially when they’re asked to do something that they’re not comfortable in doing. They also feel no need to apologize either. 

Everyone’s boundaries are different, so once we set our own boundary, it  reveals to others how we expect them to behave around us and vice versa. Healthy boundaries are essential tools for safeguarding our mental health. 

Psychologists (both human and Coddle-Popper), have discovered that when we set clear limits, we reduce stress, and increase our sense of self-worth. When we know our limits, we feel more in control of how we invest our time and energy. This sense of control lowers our anxiety and lessens the chance of burnout.

Maintaining boundaries helps us regulate our emotional responses. In deciding what we do, and do not, allow into our mental space (social media, toxic interactions), we create an environment where we can process emotions in a healthier way. 

Neuroscientists have found a link between reduced stress and clearer decision-making. When we’re not constantly overwhelmed, our brains can switch more effectively into problem-solving mode, supporting productivity and motivation.

So there we have it, well-defined boundaries act like a mental immune system (they shield us from external stressors and at the same time, strengthen our resilience). How awesome is that!?

Boundaries may take a bit of courage and practice to set, but the mental health benefits are life-changing and lead to a calmer mind, stronger relationships, and a more sustainable sense of well-being.

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

You can find more details here: https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest/

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

More mindfulness tips incoming, but until the next time, keep smiling, and together we’ll change the world – one act of kindness at a time.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good. 

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and also… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

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GET OVER YOURSELF

This week, our mission should we choose to accept it is: Get Over Yourself.

Let go of your pride in an area you feel is holding you back. Take a moment to examine your life and see if pride is the reason you won’t admit you were wrong to someone, or maybe won’t ask for help on something. You know you, it’s your list. Sort it out.

Coddle-Poppers missions take 10 minutes or less. The Coddle-Poppers are dedicated to the idea that we all have the ability to make an impact in the lives of those around us, and therefore each and every one of us has the ability to change the world. Most of us can find a spare 10 minutes somewhere in the week, so let’s make a small, but powerful difference in the lives of the people around us.

Anyone is welcome to join in at any time. Each mission usually takes 10 minutes or less, and need not even cost a single penny to complete. Some of these missions are things we can do on our own for those around us, and some bring us all together to work on one common goal. If you care about people or Mother Nature and want to help out in little ways each week, please do so. Extending kindness is a wonderful thing, and it makes us feel all warm and fuzzy! If you’d like more warm and fuzziness and can’t wait until next week, you can find more under the news tab at Fairy Wood.ca for another fix. It’s FREE, it’s FUN and it makes a difference!

The Coddle-Poppers goal is to: ‘Change the world-one act of kindness at a time’. Hundreds of people at a time jump in, do their little bit as a ‘Mother Nature’s Guardian’, and then jump back out. It’s a very cool thing to see and be a part of. If you want to learn more about the wonderful little North American Coddle-Poppers, you can hear all about them at www.TheFrequency.ca

At our core, The Frequency.Center is here to assist those who wish to graduate from 3D earth and transition to 5D. We even host a variety of workshop retreats dedicated to inner work giving you the experience of 5D. Our mission at The Frequency.Center is to help show and translate what is happening around us, how to interpret it, how it relates to your spiritual journey and then, more importantly, to help you with your inner work and spiritual growth… when you are ready.

You can find us at: https://thefrequency.ca

Social media platforms:

https://facebook.com/thelandofthelittlepeople

https://facebook.com/healingowl

You can find more of our videos at:

https://thefrequency.ca/blog

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI4qWcLRkM_4ELst-bG8Ttg

Spiritual Quest:

https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest

Other Services Offered
  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9  

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

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RECOMMEND SOMEONE

This week, our mission should we choose to accept it is: RECOMMEND SOMEONE. We all have someone in our life who seems to know the perfect place for a bite to eat, shares motivational quotes, or offers a helping hand at work.

Coddle-Poppers missions take 10 minutes or less. The Coddle-Poppers are dedicated to the idea that we all have the ability to make an impact in the lives of those around us, and therefore each and every one of us has the ability to change the world. Most of us can find a spare 10 minutes somewhere in the week, so let’s make a small, but powerful difference in the lives of the people around us.

Anyone is welcome to join in at any time. Each mission usually takes 10 minutes or less, and need not even cost a single penny to complete. Some of these missions are things we can do on our own for those around us, and some bring us all together to work on one common goal. If you care about people or Mother Nature and want to help out in little ways each week, please do so. Extending kindness is a wonderful thing, and it makes us feel all warm and fuzzy! If you’d like more warm and fuzziness and can’t wait until next week, you can find more under the news tab at Fairy Wood.ca for another fix. It’s FREE, it’s FUN and it makes a difference!

The Coddle-Poppers goal is to: ‘Change the world-one act of kindness at a time’. Hundreds of people at a time jump in, do their little bit as a ‘Mother Nature’s Guardian’, and then jump back out. It’s a very cool thing to see and be a part of. If you want to learn more about the wonderful little North American Coddle-Poppers, you can hear all about them at www.TheFrequency.ca

At our core, The Frequency.Center is here to assist those who wish to graduate from 3D earth and transition to 5D. We even host a variety of workshop retreats dedicated to inner work giving you the experience of 5D. Our mission at The Frequency.Center is to help show and translate what is happening around us, how to interpret it, how it relates to your spiritual journey and then, more importantly, to help you with your inner work and spiritual growth… when you are ready. You can find us at: https://thefrequency.ca

Social media platforms:

https://facebook.com/thelandofthelittlepeople

https://facebook.com/healingowl

You can find more of our videos at:

https://thefrequency.ca/blog

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCI4qWcLRkM_4ELst-bG8Ttg

Spiritual Quest:

https://thefrequency.ca/spiritual-quest

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

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FEELING OVERWHELMED?

FEELING OVERWHELMED?

Here’s Jeremiah Doodle-Dumpling with a useful Mindfulness Trick. 

Sometimes, our life feels like there’s a tornado rampaging though it, and turning everything upside down, and even inside out! (Much like what happened to Sheamus Sherman Schnouzer-shoes, the shy, sheep-shearing shepherd, from Shipton Shoreshells, who was made famous the day his coat tails got caught in his kite string, when a waywardly, whooshing, westerly wind, coming from a northerly direction, unexpectedly sent him into orbit! 

By the time he got back on solid ground again, his inny was an outy, his outy was an inny, his upside was his downside, and his downside was his upside. An outside in, and downside up, topsy-turvy, tizzy-whizzy of the utmost proportions, was what that was. Yes sir, it most certainly was! 

A tornado in our life, sure can leave us stressed-out, and, in a tizzy-wizzy too! But, what if the solution to our overwhelming chaos is as simple as a great big intentional breath? 

Hi, my name is Jeremiah Doodle-Dumpling, and I am the ‘Story-Keeper’ here at ‘Once Upon A Time’. I’m responsible for archiving everything that happens at Faery Wood (Both ‘what worked’ AND ‘what didn’t’). I’ve witnessed both the highs and lows for generations of Coddle-Poppers, and nobody understands the consequences of poor choices better than me. 

This is what the Coddle-Poppers call ‘The 3-Threes Mindfulness Wizardry.’ It’s quick, effective, and we use it to help us regain control when life feels like it’s getting out of hand. We use our senses, plus a few simple actions to ground ourself back into the present ‘now’ moment. It works as simple as this:

First: Name 3 things you can see.

Look around and find three specific objects. For example: An empty soda can, the enthusiastic squirrel going about his busy-ness, or the greasy finger-marks on the tv remote control from last night’s snack… oops.

Second: Identify 3 sounds you can hear.

Stop and listen. It might be your Mom nagging at you to tidy your room, the humming of pesky insects, or birds chirping at the feeder.

Third: Move 3 parts of your body.

Stretch your back, jiggle your toes, roll your eyes (especially if you’re a teenager. Grown-ups love that thing!), and finish off with a great big breath that feels like you’ve got enough air in the lungs to blow out all the candles on Great-Grandma’s birthday cake, and still have spare to blow up a few balloons for her party too! 

It might not seem much, but even these small actions are enough to pull us out of our head, and, bring us back to our body. The Coddle-Popper, 3-Threes Mindfulness Wizardry, pulls us away from the mental spiral of our overwhelm, to-do lists, worries, or whatever else, and back into the present ‘now’ moment. By engaging our senses, it interrupts the stress cycle, and gives our brain the precious opportunity to reset.

The Coddle-Popper 3-Three’s Mindfulness Wizardry works for stress at work or school, presentations, when we’re anxious/beginning to panic, or when our thoughts are getting out of control. Use it literally anywhere, such as, grocery shopping or any other place that we don’t particularly want to be either, such as work school or the chaos at home. The next time that you’re overwhelmed, remember: Stop, look, listen, & move. 

IMPORTANT: Our mind is a magnet. When we think of blessings, we attract blessings. Likewise, when we think of problems we attract problems too. So we need to do our best to make sure to always have good thoughts and be positive.

More mindfulness tips incoming, but until the next time, keep smiling, and together we’ll change the world – one act of kindness at a time.

MORE ABOUT JEREMIAH DOODLE-DUMPLING (EDITOR’S NOTES)

We are each a ‘Spirit’ (part of Source) having a ‘Human’ experience. Our life on Earth is an encyclopedia of experiences laid out FOR us (by prior agreement), in order for us to LEARN and GROW. 

Through ‘Natural Law’,  no Coddle-Popper, Spirit Guide, Faery, nor Angel are allowed to intervene on our behalf unless specifically asked or invited by us, for fear of karmic intervention.

To work around this, Jeremiah Doodle-Dumpling is able to ‘suggest’ ideas through the power of meditative suggestion (as if it were our own thinking). If you get the opportunity, please check out his ‘Points to Ponder’ blog posts, as they are profound suggestions in order for us to meditate what is actually meant. 

Allow the suggestions to digest and percolate. It is intended as to tool to enhance our discernment skills. You’re welcome.

SPIRITUAL QUEST

If you wish to discover more about yourself and how life operates, please check out our Faery Wood Spiritual Quest. It’s a Spiritual Warriors Handbook/Awakening Journal, complete with audio and exercises. A hard copy is also available. It walks us through our patterns, awareness, triggers, forgiveness, acceptance, intentions, purpose and many more areas of our life such as change.

You can find more details here: https://fairywood.ca/spiritual-quest/

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

Coddle-Poppers and Fairies are not medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, physiotherapists, naturalists, pessimists, legal or financial strategists, or even anything else that could possibly end in ‘ists.’ If you need help in any of those areas, please seek the help of a certified, pertinent, professional.

Even though Coddle-Poppers and Fairies give their services for free and with love, all of our wishes, intentions and healing are released to the ‘Higher Power’ for the greater good. 

It is for this reason that, sometimes when wishes, intentions and healing becomes manifested, they are not quite as humans expected, and… it may take a little while before the enormity of the wonderful gift that has been bestowed is finally realized. Yes sir!

Coddle-Poppers and fairies can NOT be held responsible for anything that happens in YOUR life, including anything bad or good, with or without chocolate on, as a result of you making your wish or intention. The point being, that life is what YOU make of it.

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

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MEET AND GREET

MEET AND GREET

You are all cordially invited to join the Coddle-Poppers, Faeries and C.A.R.E, NB Restoration team on the Autumn Equinox to celebrate the new GOLDEN AGE and the wonderful reunion of Creator and Mother Earth. (Please book your spot).

Friday 19 September 2025: At 7pm Atlantic time (6pm EST for those elsewhere who wish to join us in spirit), we shall drum for one hour as we hold space and build a giant ball of energy (filled with love, healing, gratitude, and positive intention). When the ball is complete (1 hour), we shall bless it with a ceremony and send it following the sun westward and through the many realms and dimensions.

Each time zone is invited to add their energy (love, healing, gratitude and positive intention) and drum/hold space for an hour at 7pm (their own time, Friday through Saturday). This is so that as Mother Earth does one full turn, the drums will play for 24 hours with every timezone, realm and dimension taking part.

Saturday 20 September 2025: Faery Festival (Fairy & Coddle-Popper fancy dress costumes encouraged) and C.A.R.E, NB Restoration Team ‘Meet and Greet,’ with pot-luck and tall tales. Explore and adventure the many woodland story trails of Faery Wood.

At 7pm Atlantic time (6pm EST for those elsewhere who wish to join us in spirit), for the exciting climax (the end of its trip around the world and through the many realms), where we shall drum for one hour as we hold space as we catch the giant ball of energy (filled with love, healing, gratitude and positive intention). At 8pm we shall we shall bless it, ground it and give to Mother Earth in celebration of the union ‘as one’ of Creator and Mother Earth.

Sunday 21 September 2025: Freestyle. Go where you’re drawn. Adventure and dare greatly! The day is dedicated to healing and empowerment.

Place: 1996 Route 107, Williamsburg, NB (By prior booking only).

Date: Fri 19 to Sun 21 Sept 2025.

Time: Details will be provided upon booking your spot. Gates will close at 6.30pm prompt (Friday & Saturday) so as not to disrupt the energy. Don’t be late!

Camping: Is available by prior arrangement only.

Cost: Freewill offering (we know that everyone’s hurting financially).

What to expect: This will NOT be a big event. It is intended as a gathering of ‘like-minded’ light-workers who have come together to celebrate, and create a shift to make the world a better place.

What to bring: Drums, rattles, folding chair, camera, picnic, meditation journal, crystals, flash-light (to find your car in the dark), coat (it gets chilly in the evening) drum, friends, a cheerful soul, happy heart, smiley face, faery costume, blanket, picnic, sunscreen, oh, … and remember to bring your drum!

Things to see & do: The pond that goes uphill, make a wish at ‘The Fairy Stone’, walk the Crystal Labyrinth, Barnabas and the Meditation Cedars, Energy/Earth Wheel, Moon Dial, Olde Fairy Ring, healing at the Medicine Wheel, experience the magic of the woodland story trails. (If you get bored, you’re not trying hard enough).

To book a spot, please email: fairy.wood@icloud.com

Other Services Offered

  • Massage Therapy
  • Lymphatic Drainage
  • Hot Stone Massage
  • Post Surgery and Injury Rehabilitation
  • Sports Rehabilitation
  • Kinesiology Taping
  • Holistic Health and Wellness

About Me

My name is Debby and my purpose in life is helping people live the life they truly desire, as pain free as possible.

My goal is to find the best option that suits your needs and walk beside you on your healing journey.

Together we can make a difference, it is the first step that is the hardest. What have you got to lose apart from your pain and discomfort.

Call for more information or make an appointment to see how I can help you. Appointments are now available for the community at:

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Road, Stanley, NB Canada E6B 1E9

 

 

Phone: (506) 367-1801

(cell): (506) 262-5402

deb@thefrequency.ca

www.TheFrequency.ca

Join Our Newsletter

This is just a placeholder while we build this website. We really do appreciate both your patience and enthusiasm and thank you for your support.

The Frequency

The Nashwaak Villa, 67 Limekiln Rd, Stanley, NB

Hours

By appointment ONLY

Copyright © 2026